CAN FAKING AN ORGASM HELP YOU HAVE A REAL ONE? (SPOILER ALERT: YES IT CAN!)

CAN FAKING AN ORGASM HELP YOU HAVE A REAL ONE? (SPOILER ALERT: YES IT CAN!)

August 05, 2018 15 Comments

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Did you know that a whopping 80% of women fake orgasms at some point in their life? Though that stat makes us roll our eyes in shame at the men of the world, there is a slight glimmer of hope amongst all this fakery, because apparently faking an orgasm can actually bring on a real one.

A recent study done by the Journal of Sexual Archives, which surveyed 481 heterosexual females (who are all sexually active but not in serious relationships), discovered that the reasons for faking orgasms come under four sections:

1. To protect the man's feelings (called 'Altruistic Deceit')

2. Out of fear and insecurity (and hoping their partner has a positive experience)

3. Faking it to end sex quicker

4. And faking it in attempt to bring on a legit orgasm

So does it actually work? Can you actually bring on a real orgasm by faking it?! Well, Lovehoney expert, Tracey Cox, reckons you sure can!

 

 

The technique is actually called "elevated arousal," and according to Tracey it involves "faking an orgasm to make yourself feel more turned on, based on the theory that if you act out the thing you want to happen, sometimes it will."

Kinda like when you put something out into the universe and it actually brings it about.

Women in this particular study said if they pretended to orgasm, their partner got more excited, which got them more excited. Tracey Cox says that by re-enacting the lead up to the real thing — breathing faster, noise, the whole show — you might just be able to push yourself over the threshold.

 

 

However, it's not an instant-fix situation…

Tracey warns that it's not the best to use the "fake it til you make it" technique at the beginning of a relationship, unless you explain what you are doing. Reason being, how will your partner ever learn what is actually going to give you an orgasm if they think they're doing it already? There is nothing wrong with constructive feedback because communication is the key to good sex.

So there you have it — keep talking, try faking and see if it brings on the real deal!

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15 Responses

Adriana Coelho
Adriana Coelho

August 10, 2018

Cool

Adriana Coelho
Adriana Coelho

August 10, 2018

Wow

Adriana Coelho
Adriana Coelho

August 10, 2018

Hi

Chloe
Chloe

August 10, 2018

everyone should read this to stop the shaming of faking orgasms ! If we want to do so, we do so! And if it helps to have a real one it’s only positive!

sofia
sofia

August 10, 2018

omg, i’ve faked a few times 😂

Vicky
Vicky

August 09, 2018

Oooh

Nayely Gonzalez
Nayely Gonzalez

August 09, 2018

oh my god, I am so in agreement with this article. Being a woman, I’ve obviously had to fake an orgasm but in reality it does work to do the whole show even if it’s a lie at the beginning you are gonna end up feeling it Seriously I hope other women learn by reading this because it is very true.

Stefy Alcaras Alfe
Stefy Alcaras Alfe

August 09, 2018

Wowwwwww

Paulina Kamensky
Paulina Kamensky

August 09, 2018

Every woman needs to read this!

Kristen Avery
Kristen Avery

August 09, 2018

Lol love this!!

Adriana Coelho
Adriana Coelho

August 09, 2018

Emma

Adriana Coelho
Adriana Coelho

August 09, 2018

Emma

Adriana Coelho
Adriana Coelho

August 09, 2018

Emma

Katriin
Katriin

August 09, 2018

I fake sometimes, nothing bad about it. Sometimes just happens you have to fake it, and then next time it’s real. Happens.. 😝

Casi Vincent
Casi Vincent

August 09, 2018

This article is literally so raw and real, you’re doing amazing max

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